Sunday, October 14, 2018

What's in My Hospital Bag + What I Actually Used



About halfway through my pregnancy, I was already researching and starting to make a list of all the things I would need to bring with me to the hospital. I read blogs and watched videos of so many other mom’s hospital bag checklists and there was so many things I came across that seemed pointless to me: like house slippers, bath robe, makeup, 3 separate hospital bags for mommy, baby, and daddy, hairdryer, curling iron, lotion, socks, shoes, a bunch of different pairs of clothes, and so on. Of course I am not making fun of or arguing with how other mother’s decide to do things. This is their own, unique, experience and they should pack what makes them most comfortable. But for me personally, I kept in mind that I wouldn’t even be at the hospital for more than a day or two and, as a minimalist, I wanted to pack lightly with everything in one bag and bring only the absolute necessities. I chose to bring what seemed the most practical to me and the things I thought I would actually be needing and using for my stay. But of course, even I ended up bringing more than I should have and used less than half of it. In today’s post, I am going to be sharing with you everything I packed in my hospital bag, indicating what I used and what I ended up not using.

WHAT’S IN MY HOSPITAL BAG - EVERYTHING I USED
HEALTHY SNACKS
As a vegan, this was important for me since there were only fruit cups and fries at our hospital cafeteria and junk food in the vending machines. In my bag, I packed things like nuts, juice, raisins, grapes, strawberries, raspberries, and kale chips. My boyfriend would also go out and pick up extra produce and would bring meals from restaurants as needed.

                                                          LOOSE CHANGE OF CLOTHES
I wanted to bring a loose change of clothes so it would be easy access if they needed to hook me up to the monitor or take my blood pressure or anything of the sort. Also wearing tight clothes after giving birth would have been uncomfortable.

CELL PHONE AND CHARGER
Having a phone on hand was a must so I could keep in touch with family and friends and we also used it to play soft music at night when we went to bed.

CAMERA AND CHARGER
Having a camera was also a must to capture moments and take never-ending pictures of our little one.

WALLET WITH ID AND INSURANCE CARD
A wallet with everything in it is always handy to bring with you everywhere you go. You may need to present your driver’s license and insurance card to the hospital staff. I also needed my insurance card so I could use the number on the back to call the insurance company to add my daughter to my insurance.

BABY BOOK
To pass the time, I filled out my daughter’s baby book when she was sleeping. In her baby book, there is a section all about her birth: name, date of birth, place of birth, time of birth, hair color, eye color, weight, length, etc. There is also a section for her hand and feet prints.

 TWO GOING HOME OUTFITS FOR BABY

You never know what size your baby will be at birth, so having two or more outfit options is a good idea incase one is too big or too small. I brought a newborn and a 0-3 month size outfit. Then again, our daughter was a preemie size, coming out at 6lbs 6.1oz, so what we brought was still too big for her anyway. We ended up going for the smallest option, the newborn outfit, which was special because it was my going-home outfit as a baby.






EVERYTHING I DID NOT USE
SHAMPOO, CONDITIONER, AND A LOOFAH
Birth is a messy process, so I thought one of the first things I would want to do was take a shower. Boy was I wrong. With how heavy I was bleeding and still getting blood on the bed, trying to breastfeed, etc, a shower was the last thing on my mind. I knew if I took a shower I would still end up feeling gross. I ended up just taking a shower once I got home. We were only at the hospital for a day anyway.

                                                                             LONG, THICK PADS
I brought so many of these knowing I was going to be bleeding postpartum. However, the staff provided them for me so I ended up using theirs rather than my own.

MATERNITY UNDERWEAR
This was a must for me. I didn’t want to get my pretty Victoria’s Secret underwear all dirty and messed up so I chose to keep those looking nice and brought a few pairs of my maternity underwear. Yet, I still did not use my maternity underwear because the hospital staff kept some disposable mesh underwear for me in the bathroom. So again, I used theirs rather than my own.

NURSING PADS AND NIPPLE CREAM
Knowing I wanted to breastfeed, I thought these were a must. However, we couldn’t get my daughter to latch on the entire time we were there, leaving no reason to put on nipple cream as they were never cracked. As for the nursing pads, since we could never get my daughter to latch on, my breasts were never stimulated and not enough milk was produced for them to even leak. I ended up not using either one of these.
                      
                     

                                BABY RATTLE TOY
I thought at least one baby toy would be a good idea to bring. I thought she might like looking at or cuddling with one of her stuffed giraffe rattles, but of course, she took no interest. A toy is really of no use to bring as they will be sleeping most of the time and a few hour old baby is not going to care or know what to do with such a thing.

DIAPERS AND WIPES
Yes, diapers and wipes are important but, again, these were also items that our hospital staff provided for us inside the drawers of the table my daughter slept on.

BABY BLANKET
My daughter was born in the middle of winter, so I thought she might get cold. However, she was kept warm from the person’s body heat of whoever was holding her and from her being swaddled. The only time we used her blanket was when we were going home. We draped it over her in the car seat. We could have saved space in my bag if we just left the blanket in the car.




So that is it for my hospital bag list of everything I brought and didn’t use! I would have used most everything in my bag, like diapers, wipes, pads, etc. The only reason why I didn’t was because I would rather use theirs first rather than my own. A tip for you is to check with your birthing center and ask them what all they will be providing for you during your stay so you know what needs to be packed or not. If I had done this, I could have used a smaller bag, like a purse, rather than my travel carry-on suitcase. I hope you enjoyed this post and don’t forget to check out my YouTube channel where I also posted a video version of this topic. I am assuming those of you who are reading this are most likely women nearing the end of their pregnancies trying to get an idea of what to pack in their hospital bags. If you are one of those women, I wish you the best of luck, a smooth delivery, a healthy baby, and an overall wonderful birthing experience. Giving birth is so euphoric!